life..

"there is no such thing as a perfect life. As you live, unexpected accidents occur and irreversible mistakes are made. However, every time we fail and get hurt in life, we find ourselves always change for the better by learning from other's pain. So even though we may make mistakes and fail again, we will continue to grow and learn"

That quote I got from one of the korean drama that I just watched. there are a lot of lessons that I get from this drama one of them is: things could be seen in different perspective. it may have a good positive side, and also a bad negative side. it all depends from the person point of view. to have a happy life, people should have see things in positive way.
(4/9/14)
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and to add this old post, I have learned a similar life lesson from a completely different movie today:

Pernah ga sih kalian ngerasain kalo hidup kalian itu ga perfect. Kadang hidup itu ga berjalan seperti yang kalian harapkan. Lately itu yang gw rasain. Gw ngerasa semua life plans yang gw punya ga pernah bisa terwujud. Tapi hari ini gw ga sengaja nonton film the sisterhood of the travelling pants dan ada quotes bagus yang bisa di ambil dari film itu: "Being happy is not having everything in your life be perfect. Maybe it’s about stringing together all the little things like wearing these pants or getting to a new level of Dragon’s Lair- making those counts for more than the bad stuff. Maybe we just get through it… and that’s all we can ask for.” And jeder aja gw merasa ngena gitu pas denger anak kecil bisa ngomong kayak gitu. Terkadang kita terlalu bingung dan gatau harus gimana menjalani hidup ini biar bisa perfect, di tambah lagi kadang kita terlalu ngedengerin komentar-komentar orang-orang sekitar kita dan itu selalu ngebuat kita ga pernah bahagia, selalu ada yang kurang. Ngedengerin perkataan orang tanpa ada pendirian sendiri itu ga bagus. Orang-orang bisa gampang men-judge kita tanpa mereka ketahui apa yang kita bener-bener alamin. Maka jika komentar-komentar itu bukan kritik atau nasihat yang membangun, mendingan kita ngejalanin aja hidup dengan cara kita sendiri dan jangan gubris komentar orang lain. Yang bisa bikin hidup ini perfect dan bahagia adalah diri kita sendiri. Konsep perfect dan bahagia sendiri itu menurut gw ada di dalam pikiran kita sendiri. Jadi kalo kita merasa hidup kita udah cukup bahagia, ya kita akan merasa bahagia.
(8/10/16)

illusion

i used to be a naive young girl who thought life is simple, and happiness is an easy thing to find. yet, as time passes by i found out that things are not as easy as it seems and i assumed too much. i assumed life would be easy. i assumed people won't leave.